Purposeful Me

How Much Time Do You Have?

When my children were still in primary school, they would have homework but their friends would knock on the door asking if they wanted to play.

The temptation to play was often so strong that they would rush through their homework. The downside of this motivation was sometimes the quality of their work. It had too many errors because they were distracted.

I made a decision that if I spotted a certain number of errors in a row, I would stop checking their work and simply ask them to re-do the exercise.

Bearing in mind that sometimes these were question papers that would have taken them 45 minutes, it was a bitter pill for them to swallow. They soon realised their ‘over-zealous’ mother was not playing ball and would take no prisoners.

They learnt their lessons the hard way and would come back with better quality of work. This was when they were young so it was understandable.

But how many times do we as adults make choices that are no better than theirs. How often do we rush to complete a task while not being fully present?

Worse still how often do we attempt tasks when we know we are bone-tired and unable to give it our best shot.

Time is a commodity that is truly expensive and we can’t regain lost time.

My question to us this week is based on a quote I came across which says, “If you don’t have time to do it right, when will you have time to do it over?”

This applies to every areas of our personal lives and careers.

As an interviewer, if you don’t have time to recruit the right person, you will spend precious time in the future managing underperformance, poor fit, bad behaviour as well as potentially having to repeat the process.

As a lover of food, there are recipes that lend themselves to half baked attempts. When making a casserole, you have time to reintroduce ingredients you forget because the long and slow process makes up for your mistakes.

On the other hand, food that lend themselves to precision will not be so forgiving. If you take your eyes off cream or egg whites during the whipping process, all it takes is a split second before the only alternative becomes to start all over again.

I once dabbled into sewing and one of the most frustrating tasks is having to undo stitches with a picker while making sure you don’t damage the fabric. It’s one of those projects that I would much rather get right the first time.

As I write this, past DIY incidents come rushing to mind. You create more work for yourself if you don’t prepare before painting a room as you have more clean-up to do afterwards.

When facing key tasks or project, do you have time to do it right the first time or would you prefer to find time to re-do the task.

If you’re running a business, would you put in the hard work to offer your customers excellent service or would you find time to resolve issues, recover broken customer relationships and find new ones to replace the ones you’re losing?

It’s much cheaper to keep your existing customers happy than to find new ones who will be loyal to your brand.

Every time you have to re-do a task, you pay the price for poor quality which means you lose the previous time spent on the task and you also take time away from another value adding activity.

As adults, we are really busy people and we can be too busy to rest, connect and be fully present.

As you start a new week, keep an eye out for actions that are counter-productive. Check yourself if you find you’re not giving your full attention to conversations or activities.

Avoid touching the same email more than once – try to respond to any emails you open. Break your big jobs into smaller tasks and complete each task you start. Becoming more purposeful in life and work will require we make changes to the way we live and work.

Thanks for reading and sharing my post.

Yemi is a motivational Speaker, Blogger and Author of 'Flying High in a Polka Dot Dress' and ‘The Purposeful Life Project’. She lives in the United Kingdom. Her passion is to help people discover their purpose and encourage them to fulfil it. She is an avid reader, a lover of people, fashion and food.

Comments

  • Olusegun
    19/07/2020

    Very apt. Anything worth doing is worth doing well.

      • Claudia
        20/07/2020

        Timely and Timeless advice!
        Thanks ma

        • Edison
          25/07/2020

          Timely reminder. We all have 24 hours how do we spend it. What time do we take out to enjoy our time.

  • Steve
    19/07/2020

    I’ll rather go slowly and get it right at the first attempt. It makes more sense than rushing it through and having to repeat the task.
    Another great piece, Yemi

  • Bosede Alabi
    19/07/2020

    It’s always good to do things right the first time. However, distractions sometimes occur when we least expect, so it may take an extra effort to remain focused at such times.

  • Dayo Adeyinka
    20/07/2020

    Yemi, Thanks for this wonderful and very, very timely piece.

    As an extension to the larger point you are making, sometimes adults fail to do things right the first time because of other more sinister reasons and the consequences end up being more dire than just doing it again.

    Case in point, the ongoing global pandemic was not handled “right” the first time in many countries and the consequence has been arguably the
    unnecessary or avoidable loss of lives.

    Politics in this case got in the way of doing the right thing at the right time and there is no second chance for those who have paid the ultimate price with their lives.

    Once again thanks for bringing this issue of to the fore.

  • Manny Ajala
    21/07/2020

    Love your article Yemi. We have to remember that we are human beings. The best time to doing anything is doing it when it is time to do it. Decide what you would LOVE to do next and then do it. Because it is the time to do it and you are putting love into doing it, then expect excellent results.

  • Nneka
    26/07/2020

    This is GOLD sister Yemi. There’s a saying “the way you do one thing is the way you do Everything”, ive come to realise that you cant say youre disciplined in some certain aspects of life but not in others. My take home is to be present in whatever ive decided to do at a particular time so as to avoid Repeating, Reworking, Redoing, Revisiting etc.

    Thank you for this amazing piece, Super blessed!

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