Managing Defeats And Setbacks Of Life
How do you see defeat? Do you treat a single defeat as a final one or not? If past failures and defeats have held you back, there is hope and a way out.
It’s Party Time
I can’t believe it has been a year since I started this blog. Hooray, ‘Purposeful Me’ Blog is a year old and what a year it has been. There have been moments when I’ve wondered what came over me to get me
Push your boat out
What is the point of a boat that remains on the shores? What dreams are you sitting on? It’s time to push your boat out, launch in to the deep and let down your net for a catch
What’s your response like?
This week’s post is inspired by two friends in their early eighties who are always joyful and excited to share about their highs and lows. They always end with phrases like, ‘Can’t complain’ or God is good or Hanging on'.
What does your dream require of you?
Following a long summer break, it's time for things to ramp up again. It's also a great time to re-assess our dreams.
Cutting corners – when a shortcut isn’t short
We are all tempted to cut corners or take shortcuts once in a while. What do we do when the shortcut isn't short?
Not Today
The phrase, 'Not Today' can literally change our lives and how we respond to circumstances. Read on for more.
Celebrating purpose, ambition and tenacity. Celebrating Christine!
My week has been one of special celebrations, first my son’s graduation followed by a friend’s 50th birthday celebration. This week’s post is inspired by someone who lives and breathes Purpose, Ambition and Tenacity. I have known Bukola Christine Olatunji for almost
Location, Location, Location
I watched a video clip of a Google employee talking about Visual Positioning System (VPS) being the next step up from Global Positioning System (GPS). I’m delighted about that as too many times, I have wondered what direction 10 yards SW is. Having a visual positioning system, that will use my location and identified landmarks to direct me is exciting. This got me thinking about where we are going in life – career, relationship and business. Where do we need to get to from our current location? Do we have the right infrastructures to help us get there with minimal mistakes along the way? Are we using a GPS which sometimes doesn’t work or gives unclear direction that requires us to initially go the wrong way just to figure out what the right way is? Here are some of my thoughts on this Figure out your starting point and final destination The two things every gadget needs to direct us are our starting and end locations. For any goals or life journey, we need to map out the road. If our starting point is unclear, chances are we will waste resources and if our end point is unclear, we will miss our destination. So do an honest assessment of where you are, which might mean facing some denials that you’re currently living in. Maybe you blame everyone, but you, for your current position, you believe the odds are stacked against you, you don’t have what it takes or perhaps it’s just not your luck. If so, it’s time to bin these thoughts and take a risk on yourself. Doing nothing produces nothing but taking a risk could result in something. Determine the best route to get to your destination. Through my career, I had short, medium and long-term plans to help achieve my goals. I found that when I meticulously followed them, I achieved most of my goals in the set timescales. How are you going to get to your destination? Do you have a plan and are you committed to it? Every step you take should move you closer to your end goal if you have created the right plan. A plan is just a bunch of ideas until you follow through. Keep your plans in plain sight so you and others can hold you to account. Find a mentor Mentors have made a difference in my personal and professional lives. Some have stretched and challenged me, giving me the confidence to put myself forward for opportunities sooner that I would have wanted to. This has resulted in fantastic outcomes and proving to myself that I am more capable than I sometimes give myself credit for. Mentors can help get you to your destination, saving you time and effort as you learn from their expertise and experience. This is similar to Google app giving you directions that improves your chances of getting to your destination quicker.